geburt der venus

for ernst jakob, october 13, 1921-march 19, 1998

i

pain is a koan in the middle of
   your chest, or a
   burning hole in the bottom of your
belly.

i have felt the pain
   that no zen master would
deny

& i have seen the face &
   touched the hand of
death

   turning my body-being to
   cold grey
stone.

ii

when the news of uncle ernst’s
   death filled my ears,
   i felt a joy & imagined a
   chuckling soul ascending through
   satisfied
clouds

   but the others were taken
   with slate fears &
weeping.

had they forgotten the wit, the
   charm, the laughing soul of the
   beloved?

shall we celebrate his
   resurrection
thus?

iii

death is our returning to the
   virgin
womb––

   the silence after the
thunder.

iv

why did the mayans tear the
   trembling hearts from their anguished
   enemies? who are the hungry buddhist
   ghosts? is cain still wandering the
   shaming earth & moses waiting to cross the
   jordan?

   how can there be christian
   soldiers? when will krishna
   sleep & why
awake?

for now, let me
   hug you to share our
   breathbodies
&
tears.

v

if you need something to
   believe in

maybe this––

   gentle life

   gentle death.