these are your parents

these are your parents––
   the mirror of your light &
      shadow
   the voice before your
      voice
   the moon the way it
      was
   your kith & kin on the
amœba side.

these are your parents––
   do not be
      angry.
   if you bite your lip it
bleeds.

these are your parents––
   please don’t be
      ashamed.
   the bearers of your infant
      heart.
   the ticklers of your baby
      tummy.

(dysfunctional??
   perhaps...
      but are you
      really
   any more wise?
      or
   any less
human?)

these are your parents––
   do not run away
   denial makes a neurotic
      mother & longing
   can make a world-weary
father.

if you need a foster
   parent in your life––
      let the court appoint
   forgiveness.
the compassionate teacher
   who can
      open the
heart
   let out the
   weeping shame, the festering
   rage, the bleeding
disappointment.

you’ve never been
   inside your heart
      but when you’ve got the
key

   there’s room for mom & dad;
      for sisters & brothers;
      for derelicts & drunks;
      bodisattvas & saints;
      for all the joy & poverty of the
soul.

these are your parents––
   believe it or not
      they made you out of
love.